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- A healthy approach to creating a Post-Divorce Budget
- A Holistic Process
- A Murky Place
- A Triumph for The Best Interests of The Child
- Alimony Ain’t Easy!
- Alphabet Soup for The Relational Soul – Part 2
- Alphabet Soup for The Relational Soul
- An Introduction to Divorce Mediation and Your Finances (free Online Workshop)
- An Unlikely Pair – a Lesson for Us All
- Anger & Vitriol – and What to Do About Them in Divorce
- Are We as Modern as We Think? Gender Role Reversal in Divorce Doesn’t Necessarily Add Up.
- Are We There Yet? (Or How Long Does Divorce Mediation Take?)
- Best Practices for On-Line Mediation: Recommended Ground Rules
- Blame – Divorce’s Unfriendly Bedfellow Uncovered
- Can A Divorce Mediator Help Couples Stay Together?
- Why Do People Get Divorced?
- Children: Damage by Divorce Is Not Mandated — Part 2
- Children: Damage by Divorce Is Not Mandated
- Divorcing but Still Living Together?
- Does Your Attorney Fit Your Particular Genotype? Part I
- Does Your Attorney Fit Your Particular Genotype? Part II
- Facing Divorce and Feeling Overwhelmed?
- Conflict Unusual — A New Way Forward, Together
- Creating Stability In A Time Of Transition – Part 1
- Creating Stability In A Time Of Transition – Part 2
- Curiosity: The Little Word that Could
- The Difference Between the Mediator, the Draftsman, and Bartleby the Scrivener
- Dissipation Revisited
- Divorce: Know When to Hold ‘Em, Know When to Fold ‘Em
- Divorce Mediation: Respect, Privacy, and Necessary Disclosure
- Feel Better for Real
- Find Solid Ground In Rough Waters: The Usefulness Of Goals
- Five Myths of Mediation
- Five Things Divorcing Couples Need To Know
- Five Things Divorcing Couples Need to Know
- The Focus Oriented Divorce Has Arrived
- Focusing Attunement: The 5 Foundations — Sitting
- Focusing Attunement: The 5 Foundations — Standing and Walking
- Focusing Attunement: The Inner Critic
- Four Things No One Tells You About Divorce (and What You Need to Know Now) Part 1
- Freedom From the Tyranny of Things
- Goal-Oriented Approach
- Going In Doesn’t Mean Going Deep – Part I
- “Going In” Doesn’t Mean Going Deep – Part II
- Gottman — “Oh S^%&T, Your Marriage Is in Trou-ble”
- Gratitude
- Happy to Announce…
- Holiday First Aid for Hurt Hearts
- How a Divorce Support Group Can Help You
- How Can I Co-Parent when I Don’t Trust My Ex-Spouse? Part I
- How Can I Co-Parent when I Don’t Trust My Ex-Spouse? Part II
- How Could You Do That? the Inner Critic Speaks, and This Time We’re Listening
- How Do We Understand Family During Divorce?
- How to Save Money and Affirm Life by Mediating Your Divorce
- If Divorce Is In The Future, What Documents Do You Need And Why?
- If I Can Waive Alimony, Why Can’t I Waive Child Support?
- If It’s Not Working, Acknowledge It and Move On
- Inner Architecture — The Resource of Your Own Imagination
- Inner Dialogue: The Foundation Of Compassionate
- Is There Room For Other Professionals in Mediation?
- Is This Marriage Viable?
- It Takes 2, Baby!? Or, What Happens when Only One Person Wants the Divorce?
- It’s A Matter Of Time …
- It’s Time for Another Paradigm Shift
- Learning To Let Go
- Livingston Divorce Mediation
- Long-Term Solutions
- Look Who Is Coming to The Mediation Table
- Love in The Time of Covid
- Making Sense of Alimony — Question 1
- Making Sense of Alimony — Question 2
- Making Sense of Alimony — Question 3
- Managing Our Emotions
- Married or Divorced: Are There Any Other Options?
- To Mediate or Not to Mediate: The Question of Power Imbalance, Part I
- Mediating in Mystery
- Mediating Your Divorce Online: A Good Option in This Time of Court Closures and Social Distancing
- Mediating Your Divorce Online: From Home
- Mediating Your Divorce Online: Tackling Technology
- Pathology Pointing: Why it Doesn’t Work in Divorce
- Positive Psychology
- Preventing Trauma – A Guide (Part II)
- Ode to Validation: The Actual Contents of The Milk of Human Kindness
- Rachel “Andy Rooney” Alexander—An Op-Ed Blog
- Re-Entering the Workforce Post Divorce Part 2 of 4
- Re-Entering the Workforce Post Divorce Part 3 of 4
- Re-Entering the Workforce Post Divorce Part 4 of 4
- Re-Entering the Workforce Post Divorce Part I of 4
- Reentering the Workforce – Part 2
- Reentering the Workforce
- Relocating as Part of Divorce — Part 2
- Relocating as Part of Divorce
- Relocating as Part of Divorce – Part 3
- Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- Should Squirrels Have the Right of Way?
- “Someday” and “Maybe” Numbers: The Challenge of Dividing Retirement Assets – Part 1
- “Someday” and “Maybe” Numbers: The Challenge of Dividing Retirement Assets – Part 2
- “Someday” and “Maybe” Numbers: The Challenge of Dividing Retirement Assets Part 3
- Spaghetti? Murder Mysteries? Ben & Jerry’s? What Is Your Favorite Coping Strategy?
- Still Saving You More than Money
- Stress and Divorce, Part 2
- Sundays, Bloody Sundays
- The Big Freeze: Overcoming Inertia What To Do When You Can’t Do A Thing
- The Dissipation of Marital Assets
- The Good News About Infidelity — Part 2: The Past
- The Good News About Infidelity — Part 3: The Future
- The Good News About Infidelity – The Present: Part 1, Phase 1
- The Good News About Infidelity — The Present: Phase 2
- The Lies Divorcing People Tell … and What to Do About Them – Part 2
- The Lies Divorcing People Tell … and What to Do About Them
- The Mediator Will See You Now…
- The Myth(?) of Monogamy
- The New Face of Zealous Advocacy: Teamwork
- The Power of “I Don’t Know”
- The Principal And The Practical
- The “We Space”
- Three Parenting Mistakes Good Parents Make — Mistake #1
- Parentification
- Three Parenting Mistakes Good Parents Make: Mistake #2
- Three Parenting Mistakes Good Parents Make — Mistake #3
- Three Tips To An Effective Mediation
- Three Tips To Save Money In Mediation
- To Mediate or Not to Mediate: The Question of Power Imbalance, Part II
- To Mediate or Not to Mediate: The Question of Power Imbalance, Part III
- To See or Not to See: Discovery in Mediation
- Trauma and Divorce: What Good Parents Need to Know (Part IV)
- Two Canine Commands That Are Worthy Of Us All
- Ungrateful and Pissed Off? A Curmudgeon’s Survival Guide for Thanksgiving
- Validation—How We Speak Is How We Love
- What Are We Celebrating Here?
- What Divorce Can And Can’t Do
- What Divorcing Couples Need to Know About Real Property – Part 2
- What Divorcing Couples Need to Know About Real Property
- What Is a Family?
- What is an Attunement? (And is an Oil Change Included?)
- What Is Divorce From Bed And Board? And Is Breakfast Included?
- What Is ESP in New Jersey, and Do You Need a 6th Sense to Benefit?
- What Makes Divorce so Scary?
- What Robert Lee Can Teach Us About “ED” — And It Is Not What You Think
- What’s the Difference Between Hurt and Trauma? (Part I)
- What’s Your Story? Here’s Mine.
- When It All Comes Down to The Blender: The Value of Personal Property in Divorce
- Where Is The Equitable in Equitable Distribution? Part 1
- Where Is The Equitable in Equitable Distribution? Part 2
- Where Is The Equitable In Equitable Distribution? Part 3
- Who Ya Gonna Call? The Mediator!
- Whose Side Are We On? the Same Side!
- Why God Is In The Details
- Why Is Managing Stress During Divorce So Important? Part 1
- Why NOT to Retell the War Stories of Your Marriage
- Why Open the Door? and Why Do You Still Have that Hideous Bedspread?
- Why People Divorce: The Breakdown That Precedes the Breakup
- Words that Harm and Words that Heal (Part III)
- Your Brain on Divorce
- Your Divorce And Your Health [Insurance]
- Your Marriage Story — Loving Your Kids by Mediating Your Divorce
- Your Rights — Going Fast! Part 1
- Your Rights — Going Fast! Part 2
- Your Rights — Going Fast! Part 3
- A 3-Minute Attunement (Reconnecting Within)
- A Couple Walked Into a Marriage Counselor — the Problem
- A Couple Walked Into a Marriage Counselor – Toward Solution
- A COVID-19 Tale: From Social Isolation to Social Responsibility
- A Happier New Year – 2013
- A Happier New Year — 2022
- 4 Tips To Let The Light In But Keep The Bugs Out
- A Happier New Year
- Separate Together (A New Understanding of Intimacy)
- Mediation Questions to Consider
- Mindfulness and Mediation
- Mindfulness and “Self-in-Presence”: A Tool for Divorce Mediation?
- Mediation in The Hamptons Part 2
- Mediation in The Hamptons
- Four Things No One Tells You About Divorce (and What You Need to Know Now) Part 2
- Four Things No One Tells You About Divorce (and What You Need to Know Now) Part 3
- Four Things No One Tells You About Divorce (and What You Need to Know Now) Part 4
- Victim No More
- Don't Weaponize the Children
- What About the Pets?
- 50-50 parenting still requires 100% of both parents
- Focusing & Divorce: The One in There (Part 1)
- Focusing & Divorce: The Right Distance (Part 2)
- Focusing & Divorce: Take Nothing Literally (Part 3)
- Status Quo
- Can Trauma Inform How We Divorce?
- Property Ownership and Prenuptials — What You Need to Know
- Prenuptial Agreements: An Overview
- Prenuptials: Who Needs Them?
- Prenuptials: Key Terms and Their Underlying Complexity
- The Marital Home in Prenups, Postnups, and Divorce
- Prenup Problems: Should A Marital Home be Separate Property?
- We’ve signed our Agreement… What is Next? I.
- We’ve signed our Agreement… What is Next? II
- We’ve signed our Agreement… What is Next? III
- The Two C’s of Coping with Divorce: Part I Connection
- The Two C’s of Coping with Divorce: Part 2 Control
- Blindsided — When the End of a Marriage Comes as a Complete Shock
- Blindsided and Bedridden - More Support and Treatment Options
- When was “No Justice, No Peace” Truncated to “No Justice?”
- Announcement to Divorce Support Group Participants (Current and Future) - A Change for the Better is in the Works!
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